The stock
Dana 30 front with 260-series axle u-joints and an unmodified AMC M20 rear are acceptable for stock with mild off-roading. For sure most people will tell you that 33's are about the biggest acceptable tire for those axles stock if you hit it even moderately hard off-road. Everyone and their brother will post up a " well my brother's cousin's CJ ran every obstacle in Moab on stock axles and 39.5's" but the you will find plenty of people making the 33" claim for them.
Your LJ had a better rear axle in factory configuration in the
Dana 44 , but the front was still a low-pinion
Dana 30 with larger 297 u-joints. Stronger than a CJ unit but not titan in the axle world. XJ/MJ/YJ axles with the larger 297 joints can get away with a little more but they are a stronger high pinion design. The issue with the
Dana 30 is the tiny tiny ring & pinion and the weak axle tubes.
To run 35's most will suggest aftermarket axles for both ends with the 1-piece axle upgrade for the M20, trussing the
out of both axles, and tacking the tubes of the M20 to the diff housing if the rear is still relatively straight. Many CJ's, even stock road jeeps, have a messed up M20 and folks don't know it until the try to mod it or the run into the common bearing/seal problems.
I went to a D60 front and shaved 14 bolt rear to run 38's. They may be slightly more than needed but with the 14 bolt shaved I still have more diff clearance than a
Dana 44 on 35's and worrying about axle failures has now slipped way down the list on my off-radding concern chart.
Do a wider search than here and I think you will turn up tons of info to sort through before you make your decision. Keep in mind that as much as diameter matters the weight of the tire and wheel matter a ton, too. The last set of 285/75/r16's e-rated tires I had on steel rims where right at 120# each. I am afraid to weigh my 38x15.5x16.5's on 16.5x12 steel rims but they are no fun to put on the jeep sometimes...
Cutting the rear fender wheel and grafting on stock TJ flares will give you a big room boost in the rear.