So back the original question.. Since the YJ leafs are straighter, does the front ride height lower? Should I buy a lifted YJ set to match height of rear CJ's?
Lots of confusion on the YJ springs and flatter is better if your looking for ride quality.
The first thing that anyone should do in order to understand how to obtain the best ride is to weigh each corner of your vehicle first with all the weight onboard. Springs are all about supporting weight at a given height and spring frequency. With that information it's much easier to then put the right spring under the vehicle.
Ride quality and Lift don't normally travel the same path when just changing a spring within the same OEM mounting space unless that space was previously engineered for the spring.
Buying a 2 or 3 inch lift is at best a guess as to how well it will fit your needs.
Bump Steering, Pinion and Castor angle all have to be considered.
When a spring is arched up for lift , three things happen. First the spring has to be re-arched up which adds to a stiffer spring needed to hold the weight up at your new ride height. The physical length of the spring now becomes longer but yet is still asked to fit & work within the original eye to eye spring space.......unless you move the fixed end of the frame spring bracket the shackle angle which plays a major part of ride quality will move. Add the fact that the spring will not have the same bending frequency will all add up to a rougher but higher ride height...........just can't have them all.
I like a wider ( 3" +/-) and thinner leave package, but also a few inch longer than CJ spring that is specified by weight to do the work as you require.
If you want the ride quality & height of a much more compliant , flatter & longer spring that has to be built into the mounting of said spring first...........don't ask the spring to change.
If your going to build or buy a new chassis that all can be engineered between the chassis & spring builder..........Bill at Alcan in Colorado or Jeff at Deaver springs in California can assist you in getting exactly what you want the first time.