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Is this a mistake or is it "Painless"

Is this a mistake or is it "Painless"
Unfortunately I've run into a few health related issues that have stopped most work on the CJ. Nothing real serious, only heart related. Doc says I haven't had a heart attack, but all is not right either. Going to see a cardiologist soon to see what's happening.
 
Sorry to hear that I hope you get well soon.
 
I hope things work out. Oddly enough as I get older, I think more about how to mitigate the shock and pain the person who finds my stinking body will have than I do about death. I've run my short race, my kids hate me, my family is largely gone on, tomorrow is just another day, honestly I feel like my day is done.
 
I think you have alot of people who care about you and you need to be strong. It's when you give up that this kind of thing will get you so please be strong. We here will all miss you if you were gone.
 
What mtnwhlr said.

-Jon


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I think you have alot of people who care about you and you need to be strong. It's when you give up that this kind of thing will get you so please be strong. We here will all miss you if you were gone.



I agree 100%. I sent you a PM Hedge.


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Things will get better. Hang in there my friend!
 
Sorry about the above post. I was particularly down and it came out through my fingers. I'm well enough, there certainly are a lot of people who are worse off than I am. When my children spend months ignoring my existence for no reason I can understand it occasionally wears on me. My youngest is living in my house. She doesn't speak with me at all. When I come home with bad health news my youngest goes, "Poor, poor dad get over yourself."
 
Sounds like your youngest need a good swift kick in the :censored:
 
She does, but you can't do that anymore. I went in her room the other day to get my dishes. She told me that she could call the police on me for going in her room. What! What for? Oh well, its better than being completely alone.
 
Is this a mistake or is it "Painless"

She does, but you can't do that anymore. I went in her room the other day to get my dishes. She told me that she could call the police on me for going in her room. What! What for? Oh well, its better than being completely alone.



I've seen this movie before in real life. I suggest that she in fact does call the police for that. I'm confident they'll reminder her whose house her room is in, and that will be the end of those threats...


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I will pray for you and your family HH.
 
In these situations I do my very best to keep calm. She was upset because I didn't follow the proper knocking protocol. According to her I'm supposed to check to see if the door is locked. If it is I need to knock on the door. If her door is unlocked I can just come in. MY response was, "If your door is closed I will always knock and common curtsey is to say, come in." It's a very small bedroom, naturally she is still in bed (in night cloths) so I said, "Kelly I'm washing dishes and I need your plates and glasses." She didn't move, "I'll bring them out when I'm ready." Needing them I went around her bed and got the dishes. Now she's upset screaming about how I don't trust her, "no I just need the dishes now." Then she told me that I'm a piece of sh**. The Dad in me broke a little on that one. "How dare you say that to me! I saw your first breath, I fed you your first meal, I changed your diapers and I took care of you when you were sick, you are in my house, how dare you say that to me." That's when she threatened to call the cops on me. Like I said, For what? I just needed to wash her dishes. In her defense, she is seeing a psychiatrist and has some medication for stress. You know stressful situations like me asking if she has gas in the car or would she like something for dinner.
 
Remind your daughter that there won't be any doors to knock on, when she's living under an overpass.....
 
For a good time, Google "homeless in the jungle in Seattle." It is the most lawless and largest independent/unregulated ad hoc homeless encampments in Seattle. It is under the interstate 5 elevated section that transverses the downtown core.

-Jon
 
Just a quick note. She has been MUCH better for the past few days. Not as aggressive, even a little compliant. Thank goodness!

Thank you all for your support, I know this isn't the place for this kind of thing, but your words meant a lot to me.
 
HH, I'm really sorry to hear about your problems. I happen to be very blessed with a family that was very suppotive during my darkest times with health issues a few years back. There are a lot of people that care about you that you don't see, and I'm not talking about just here. As an LEO for many years, just call and ask to talk to one about your situation with your daughter. Most would rather lay it all out for you on what you can and can't do within the law before a problem arises. I think you will be surprised at what they have to say. I'm pretty sure that unless she is paying rent, you can do whatever you want as long as it doesn't cause a disturbance or a physical altercation. You have right too my friend.
 
praying for you Hedge Hog. I really liked my painless harness, they marked it pretty good, I dont remember it being the same colors as original tho. Since I have an 83 it was mostly a plug an play affair for me. Hope you get to feeling better and your health improves, I get to see a cardiologist as well for my Bicuspid aerota valve
 
HH, please listen to PB as he and I have very similar backgrounds. It's YOUR house/home and it's your rules.
If and when she threatens to call the po-po again, hand her the phone and tell her to do it.
Now-What's up with your health?
LG
 
HH - Agree with all above well wishes, and sure you may be tired of that at this point, so I'll move on - but hope you're well and happy.

I have a 74 - so you know the area I come from on your first post with the differances. I had no fuse box, but do have a adapted GM style colunm.

The column was not hard to adapt to my EZ wiring harness I got. Should be similar to the Painless. EZ sent adapters to the stock GM style plugs too. Since my GM Column was hacked in by the PO - all the original wiring plugs were gone so I got the new plugs and re-wired it in the the adapter. Fit together nicely.

The advice I have for everyone with the wiring is the same no matter what the kit type:

1) Write down ALL the electical components you have on your jeep to supply power too. I combined stuff slightly - ie Head lights vs right head light & left headlight, but you get the point. I also decided to plan for all future circuits I would need power supply from the fuse box - and made sure they were routed the right way. (IE my electric fan upgrade one day will have a water crossing kill switch - I already have a switch and power lead ran on dedicated fuse positing in my block, although the actual remaining wiring will still need to be done later)

2) I choose a location for the fuse box mounting (if different than your stock location)

3) I go through the cirut lables on the fuse box and chart out what each one will be for. I take into consideration first what is already labled correctly (IE headlights, turn signals, radio, ignotion, etc) for ease, and make sure with the fuse box placed approximately where it goes all power supply wires look like they are going to the correct loom portion (usually the harnesses have 3 looms - Engine compartment - Interior - Under / rear - Some of them break out further obviously but consolidation is cleanest to a point :D) then redistribute any circuts to the corrected looms. For example, I chose my fuse boxe's Fuel injection circut fuse slot to be my CB radio circuit. So I removed the wiring necessary for from the engine compartment loom and fed it through the interior loom. If necessary I pull the wiring from the rear of the fuse box to incorporate the correct legnth wire to be cut to fit (you don't want wires too short everywhere with splices - this is why you bought new harness :D )

4) after that slightly teadius task, I mounted the fuse box and ran the looms in their general direction.

5) clean all grounds and add new ones as needed / desired to hook components to as you go - or Like I wired in all my grounds now - from every circuit. Then I could add those wires into the looms where possible / needed for final clean routing with the rest of the wiring.

6) From here I took each loom and ran the wires for each circuit to their general place (took the wires to general areas, looped same ciruit wires together with loose knots / tape).

7) Then I started, one area at a time (depending), making sure all the looms were tucked and positioned where I wanted them with protection and "almost permanant" mounting - closest to the fuse box out. The more complicated circuits I would finish all at once even if it meant moving back and forth from the engine compartment to under the dash, just because I was already thinking about all the deails of the circuit, but for the most part, working by area from fuse box out allowed me to keep everything very clean and tight as I went with LESS breaking back into the loom to add a wire or move one etc.

I just took my time, made each connection nice and shrinkwrapped and it went "fairly" smoothly. I actually leared a lot about my jeeps wiring too as now I have wired everything on it.

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